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What do you value?

Ever hear the expression “we are our own worst critics”? Life could be so much easier being are our own best friends. By that I mean, it’s tough enough without the pressures we put on ourselves to be more popular, more successful, more beautiful, more, more, more. A glass half-empty approach is like digging a hole in the sand – lots of effort for little result. These values never seemed more misaligned than when I was in Africa.


Instead why not focus on how we can be better people, make a difference? If each of us committed to shifting our focus on what really matters, not only would the world be a better place, our lives would be easier and I am certain we would all be happier. We are all on this ride together and we have the power to change its course. So, what do you value?

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